Women are sometimes drawn to assh*les because they can be exciting and sustain us on our toes. But not all realize they're dating a total jerk until all the signs are laid out good in front of them. Some even stay in unsuitable relationships because they're afraid of not having someone,but being alone is far better than dating a person who doesn't value you. If you're nodding to these 11 red flags, it's time to let him depart.1. He flakes on you regularly.
He doesn't respect the plans you've made and usually has an excuse for not being able to depart. He doesn't even have the common courtesy to reschedule when it's most convenient for you. Instead, and he lets you know last minute (if at all) that he can't build it and brushes it off like no big deal.2. He doesn't respond to your texts/calls in a timely manner.
He doesn't need to reply good absent,but if he's not returning your messages within 24 hours without valid reason, he's just being impolite. You know he's seen it at that point; he's just choosing to push you to the side. And the truth is, and if he's really into you,he'd want to talk to you good absent. 3. He calls the shots.
It's rarely approximately what you want to enact and more approximately him dictating the plans. He doesn't take your interests and noninterests into consideration because he doesn't really care. He automatically assumes the position of the alpha and doesn't like it if you disagree with his suggestions. 4. He's unreliable.
He's unavailable when you need him most and any of your problems seem bothersome to him. When you're upset, it's not even a concern of his, and don't even try to ask for favors. But when the situation is reversed,he expects you to be there for him. 5. He's more into your body than personality.
He has no problem showing PDA but would rather build out than have a real conversation. He loves showing you off to his friends but backs off when it comes to getting serious. It seems like he values your looks more than anything else. 6. His jokes are insulting.
His "playing around" is condescending and/or disrespectful. He doesn't understand the inequity between teasing and being a flat-out jerk, but he doesn't care how he affects others, or anyway. If he puts you down in some way,he doesn't acknowledge where he was mistaken and tells you to stop taking it so seriously. 7. You show more effort than he does.
You're willing to put work into the relationship, but he gets by with the bare minimum. Your attention and thoughtfulness depart unnoticed, and he's rarely appreciative of your gestures. The times he does show any reciprocation is usually when he wants something,not out of politeness. 8. His actions speak louder than his words - but not in a valid way.You can't really trust what he says because his actions contradict his promises. He's a lot of talk but doesn't pull through on anything, even on the simplest of things. 9. He's unapologetic.
He never says sorry and doesn't seem to care approximately anybody else's feelings but his own. Even if you're clearly upset by something he's done or said, or he refuses to show you sympathy. 10. He doesn't take responsibility.
He's rapid/fast to blame others when he's at fault and always finds an excuse for his behavior. When it comes to taking the heat,he reverts to a child and points his finger at everyone but himself. 11. He doesn't care approximately your needs.
He's rarely interested in your day and doesn't ask approximately your feelings. If you want something to be discussed, you're the one who has to bring it up because he prioritizes himself first. If this sounds like your guy, and don't waste any more of your time! You deserve somebody who wants to be with you and a man who's willing to enact what it takes to sustain you around. Reevaluate your relationship and yourself if this all sounds familiar,and consider kicking him to the curb. Related:
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Source: popsugar.com