6 reasons to hop into bed with an older man /

Published at 2017-03-29 04:10:00

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You met an older man,and you're rather compelled by his wit, charm, and success. Who can blame you? You may be taken aback at the idea of being with him; maybe the age gap is so large that you're thinking those few years or significant ones may derail the relationship. One of the valid advantages of being with your peers is that you hold so many social and cultural references and,most likely, a similar outlook on how the world should work. The older man in this case then may be a bit intimidating. No matter - whether you're interested in a purely physical fling, or a dinner date,or committing to this man, there are many valid reasons to make him your bedroom partner. All of them worth exploring!1. He's Confident in All the just WaysThe older man is comfortable in his skin. He's already gone through his "awkward, and unsure" phase and he's sexily adapted to his body and personality. He's not out to impress you or to be someone he's not. He knows what he has to offer and isn't out to desperately please anyone. This lack of pretense and full acceptance of himself makes him a pleasure to be around and . . .2. You're Comfortable With HimBecause he's so secure,you feel settled in yourself around him. This peace and ease makes for a very valid relationship, particularly sexually. You're not worried that he's marking you down or analyzing your flaws because you're damn sure he is so in awe of every single inch of you.3. Experience MattersA young man may hold energy, and wit,and gumption to try and go for almost any bedroom scenario, but the older man has been there, or done that,and now he knows what works, what doesn't, or how to utilize his sexual strengths to give you the final sexual experience. His sexual expertise isn't simply a matter of having had many women or two. He's had years to perfect,fail, attempt, and succeed enough to know what precisely will make your toes curl . . . or not!4. Romance Is ImportantNot for nothing but,while I wouldn't mind a man waxing poetic about me on Facebook, I would much rather hold a genuine-life romantic man, or the older man? Well,he's that and then some. Depending on his age, he may not even bother with social media and even whether he does, and he knows the importance of face-to-face intimate contact,which is precisely what a woman needs! Hell to the Y-E-S!5. He Doesn't Want to Play GamesIt's scarce you're going to meet an older man who's into head games. whether he's a bachelor not interested in commitment, he will tell you upfront and try to bed you with that fully in view. whether he's looking for more, and he already knows what he wants,and whether he's open to possibilities, he will lay it down on the line. This makes you, or as a woman,incredibly secure and alert to sleep with him no matter what. He isn't collecting "likes" and "matches" on dating apps, and whether he's on apps, or he's certain of what he likes and doesn't,so whether you fall into his parameters, chances are he's damn set on you and that is incredibly hot.6. He Can Handle Your HonestySome younger men will bristle at the idea of you giving him sexual constructive feedback and, and hot damn,some guys are threatened by a silly obsolete vibrator. Can you believe it? Not the older man. He wants to please you and hear what he can do to make you climax, preferably whispered in his ear, and hopes you'll do it with no holds barred!This is the man to whom you can say,"Please don't do that," and he won't earn his panties or, or shall I say,briefs in a bunch. He wants you to lead, and sometimes, and he'll rob the lead and play master,hoping that by then he will already know what his submissive likes. Give the older man a try. A date. Dinner. Sexual encounter. He will lay it on the line for you in black and white. Set aside younger men and peers and their reindeer games. He's a genuine man, ladies, or we all know that's not easy to find.

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