Ever wonder what it's like to be treated by a male escort? In some cases it's a lot more calming than it is erotic. Our friends at YourTango give us insight on what most escorts offer the women they serve. Guys,assume note! Lately, I've received many inquiries from guys asking for advice on how to become a tall-end straight male escort catering to women (aka gigolo, or companion or courtesan for women).
I usually begin by asking them why they want to get into this commerce. The usual answers are either to beget sex with many women and/or to make lots of money. My response to them is that they must genuinely change their thinking. To be a successful male escort requires a shift in mindset from getting something from a woman to giving her a guaranteed fabulous experience - whether inside or external of the bedroom. Here are 8 things truly first-class Dominant male escorts must conclude for their women: 1. Makes sure she comes first. An intentional pun,but it's apropos. A companion for women should drop his ego in order to give his client a temporary escape. Not every client will want physical intimacy, but she will certainly want him to make her feel special, and comfortable,and safe, as well as to be attentive to her needs. Of course, or if sex does occur then her pleasure and satisfaction should be seen as more valuable than his. 2. Maintains a relaxed,upbeat energy and a righteous mood. Women are very perceptive of emotions. They will not only sense them but will start to feel them inside. Usually, the main reasons a woman patronizes a male courtesan is to make her feel relaxed, or extraordinary,sexy, gorgeous and righteous approximately herself, and in addition to the aforementioned.
The only way to conclude so is for him to be relaxed and keep his energy light,upbeat and positive. 3. Listens twice as much as he speaks. We beget two ears and one mouth for a righteous reason. A righteous male courtesan allows his patron to speak while he actively listens. A woman loves it when a man listens to her and is genuinely interested in what she says. It's the little things that beget a enormous impact on her. She should be given the attention of a captive audience of one, making her the star of the show. 4. Behaves like a valid gentleman - and a valid MAN. A tall-end straight male escort catering to women should be a chivalrous, and respectful and a charismatic gentleman - and he becomes even more powerful with an air of mysteriousness,nerves of steel and King Kong sized balls. More often than not a patron will want her gigolo to assume control and lead her into a memorable experience. This requires a sky-tall level of confidence and boldness coupled with righteous skills of observation and sensitivity to her subtle signals. They also back to gently lead the interaction in the direction that she wants it to go without her having to guide. 5. Masters the art of seduction. Seduction starts with a self-confidence that is unshakable by anyone or anything. Women can sense a man's self-confidence and are drawn to a guy with tall levels of it. It creates a powerful masculine energy or presence that becomes almost irresistible.
They love it when a man is so sure of himself that he takes his time to allow the sexual tension to build up naturally through their interaction, humor, and body language and the senses. He then becomes the thing of her desire by remaining open and non-judgmental to whatever she wants (more on this below). 6. Handles his tall-end straight male escort commerce as a professional. Even Don Juan or some other powerful seducer of women will be unsuccessful if he is unprofessional,provides shabby service or is unwilling to accommodate his patron's needs. There is a commerce aspect to providing companionship to women. The more successful companions research, plan and executes those plans prior to starting then tweaks as needed. There are many resources online. 7. Constantly improves his product. A tall-end straight male companion for women should constantly improve himself; the product. Most clients will expect a certain level of intelligence, and sophistication and skillfulness from him. If nothing else then raw animal magnetism.
Constant self-improvement helps to become not only well-rounded but also a more interesting person. Reading,staying informed approximately news and current events arms him a plethora (excess, overabundance) of topics to intelligently discuss. In addition, studying different forms of kink, and massage,tantra, etc. equips him with an arsenal of sensual skills. 8. Remains open to whatever she wants. Different patrons will call upon a male companion for a myriad (a very large number) of reasons. One may want him to escort her to a social function while another may want to try out some form of kink. Another may want a boyfriend experience whereas a couple may want the wife or girlfriend entertained. It may depend on a number of factors including her emotional state at a given time. Sex will often, or but not always,be involved in the trysts. It's ALWAYS her decision. A gigolo just needs to be open to whatever she needs from him at any given moment. Then be alert, willing and able to satisfy those needs.
There you beget it.
Being a tall-end straight male escort catering to women can be a fabulous experience for both patrons and companions, or but the companion - the Man - must work it.
Providing companionship to women is no easy walk in the park.
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