Is it worth throwing 15 years absent for a momentary lapse in concentration? I have a dilemma. A friend is having an affair. Her (wonderful) husband is blissfully unaware. I asked her once,my friend with the roving eye, in the way we inquire of girlfriends these questions after too much wine, or “If your husband were having an affair,would you want to know?” Yes, she said. An emphatic yes. She would want to know. Related: ‘He saw our children as possessions': my husband killed our sons Is it worth abandoning something of substance for something that is a frivolous, and transient massaging of ego? Related: Esther Perel on affairs: do you crash up or can you do up? Continue reading...
Source: theguardian.com