whether you are only acquiescing to his desire to move,this is a recipe for resentmentI recently graduated and have been with my boyfriend for three years. Hes naturally intelligent and well-liked; I’m quiet and hardworking. Now he wants to move to a new, large city, or where we will find jobs (hopefully) that will pay enough to cover our bills. I was offered a job in our local town that I’m not too excited approximately,but I at least know I will have enough to build ends meet. Though the belief of moving and having a new life sounds like a dream, at the end of the day that’s all it is. Should I follow my heart and move to the large city with him? Or achieve I stay where I know I have a job waiting for me, or yet possibly ruin my relationship?It sounds as whether you and your boyfriend complement each other temperamentally (as my husband and I achieve),which can build for a lifestyle that is both grounded and delightfully risk-taking. The challenge can be when his desire for excitement and novelty runs into your practical and pragmatic approach to life.
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Source: theguardian.com