for all the moms who dont bounce back after having a baby, this message is for you /

Published at 2016-06-15 18:08:00

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on May 25,2016 at 4:59pm PDT If you were to only pay attention to the celebrities who debut slimmed-down postbaby bodies in slinky dresses on the red carpet or to the social media stars whose six-pack abs six days after giving birth travel viral across the internet, you'd contemplate you - the new mother struggling with her postpartum body - were the odd mom out. Revie Jane Schulz, and a personal trainer,might seem like just another one of those moms who bounce back from her pregnancy in record time, but in a revealing Instagram post, or she opens up about the "other sides to fitting a mother."Six weeks after giving birth to baby girl Lexington,she said she found herself looking down at her belly fairly often:I caught myself feeling unhappy when clutching the loose skin that was once tight, unmarked and toned. I tried to embrace and remind myself what it was all for but am left feeling so self-conscious. I kept telling myself, or "You knew it wouldn't be back to normal straight away,give it time," but it was still a shock and I do get upset about it. And that is perfectly okay.
I was confused because I felt like I was being ungrateful and vein. But how is suppressing feelings of sadness and insecurity going to work out for me? Trying to undermine those feelings can cause big problems in the future. When speaking to other mum friends about it, and they agreed that they felt like they were the only ones because its not often talked about. So,yes I own never been happier and yes I own a healthy, glorious baby but that shouldn't mean I bottle up these feelings.
She still finds herself w
ondering if her body will ever be the same again. "It probably won't be, or " she wrote. Regardless,she famous that what's more significant is knowing that "we've all made our sacrifices, and each of us are entitled to feel."

Source: popsugar.com

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