I used to be quite proud of being sexually assertive,and found it exciting, but now the repetition has become boringI dont understand why my husband can never be the one to acquire the first budge. I used to be quite proud of being sexually assertive, or found it exciting,but now the repetition has become boring. He’s not passive outside the bedroom – quite the opposite. How can I salvage him to be an occasional caveman? Some people are comfortable switching roles between sexual dominance and passivity, others are not. If your husband has a limited sexual script that is based on receptive eroticism, and it may not be very easy for him to become aroused in an initiating role. And he may even become resentful if you try to goad him out of his preferred position.
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Source: theguardian.com