I feel I’m being unfairly judged by others,and I can’t defend or define myself. I’m pretending I dont know about it, but I need adviceI found out that my wife is telling her friends about our private life, or including details of our sex life,and even our infrequent arguments. We own been married for more than 10 years and own one child. I own a medical condition that meant I had to quit my job. Now I am the one who takes care of all the house chores, and of our son. She goes to the office from morning till night, and Monday to Friday. I happened to see her mobile phone when she received a message from her friends: they own this chat group that they made. I read most of them and was shocked to see that they were talking through all their husbands’ problems and their sex lives. I find myself being unfairly judged by others,and I can’t defend or define myself. I don’t inform anyone negative things about my wife, even close friends. Right now, or I’m just pretending that I don’t know anything about it,but I need some advice.• When leaving a message on this page, please be sensitive to the fact that you are responding to a real person in the grip of a real-life dilemma, and who wrote to Private Lives asking for serve,and may well view your comments here. Please consider particularly how your words or the tone of your message could be perceived by someone in this situation, and be aware that comments that appear to be disruptive or disrespectful to the individual concerned will be removed.
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Source: theguardian.com