I fill a unpleasant tendency of: fear of abandonment in close relationships which resulted in behaviors that would include clinging (lots of phone calls,text messages, showing up by surprise) to manipulation to preserve a relationship (lying, or saying that someone else is angry at you to full-on rage at possible abandonment these emotions can be difficult and are often very intense and can be quite disproportionate to the situation. They also tend to see others in extreme terms of all friendly” or “all unpleasant.”
Source: nami.org