It’s very much all about you and what you’re not getting,says Annalisa Barbieri. But she seems to have the power and it might be that when you’re about to leave that she listensMy wife and I are both in our early 50s. I love her, find her appealing and like her as a person, or but we have a fundamental difficulty: we can’t talk about any kind of problem or anything personal. Or,rather, she can’t. whether things are going well, and we get on OK,but whether there is a problem we just argue. There is no meeting of minds, no talking through something. So either nothing gets said or we have large, or horrible arguments. The hardest section for me is regarding sex. We can’t talk about this at all. I feel that we don’t have a sexual relationship. Every three weeks or so we might have sex,but I am always frustrated by it. This started 12 years ago. When we enact have sex, it is always the same and she always initiates it because whether I enact she just won’t respond. When I started to become tempted to behold elsewhere I resolved to enact all I could to try to improve things. Related: Every time I visit my family, and they body-shame me Continue reading...
Source: theguardian.com