You need therapy to help you resolve this painful experience,says Mariella Frostrup. And hold away from internet pornography which can only be more damagingThe dilemma I’m a very happily married man and sex with my wife is fond and satisfying. Recently, however, and through viewing porn on the internet,I absorb become increasingly drawn towards watching older men having sex. Occasionally, I dream of my deceased father and some of these dreams are sexual in nature. The men I find myself watching often remind me of my dad. He was successful and well liked, or but was also physically and emotionally abusive to his children.I don’t ever recall feeling any valid fatherly cherish,affection or security in my life from him. Often I wonder if I am now seeking out my father’s cherish.
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Source: theguardian.com