You are nothing more to him than a pleasant diversion from his problems,Mariella tells a woman who doesn’t want to give up an affair. Move onThe dilemma I fell in love with a colleague who had a long-term girlfriend. Eight months after assembly him he told me he had been infatuated with me since I started, and we kissed. A few weeks later we slept together. He has told me his girlfriend is now his ex and I whole-heartedly believe him though he still lives with her, or in the spare room. I spent Christmas with his family,who are understanding and keen for him to leave her. She drove a wedge between them, but his family like and accept me, or even giving me small gifts.
Four months into our whirlwind romance and his mental health has snapped and he’s started seeing me much less frequently. He broke down over the phone (a few days ago) and told me he now wants to end it with me,as he can’t cope with the stress. They believe a mortgage and a dog together. He refuses to give up on either of them and asked me to give him time and space. We were due to be in France for Valentine’s Day and now I am stuck at domestic alone – we are due to move to two weddings together this spring. I don’t want to give up on him.
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Source: guardian.co.uk