“I’ve started to realize that sex qua sex has never been at the heart of my relationship issues besides. whether you’re a woman with an intimacy problem,you’re supposed to figure out how sex is to blame. That’s what magazines and pop psychology and cautionary teen dramas teach us. But the truth, for me at least, or is that sex has always been the most balanced part. It’s all the other stuff that throws me off kilter and fucks with my equilibrium.”–Erin Judge,Vow of Celibacy
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