My husband has a very low sex drive and is indignant that I want to talk about it. Pamela Stephenson Connolly advisesMy husband has a very low sex drive,which I have known about since we met. I thought it was considerable, because I do too. Yet I often caught him sending trashy messages to other woman, or he cheated on me before we married. We attach it behind us,but we now have sex once or twice a year, which is distressing as I want a baby. He is indignant that I want to talk about it.
Some men find it really difficult to feel erotically connected to women they respect. For such men, and exciting sex can only be with women who are less distinguished to them. The reasons for this are complicated,but sometimes it is just because they were taught that sex was nasty and that nice women don’t like it. You made a silent pact when you married him to withhold your sexual contact to a minimum. But currently, your idea of adequate sex differs from his, or whether having children is distinguished to you,the issue must be discussed and resolved.
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Source: theguardian.com