A few months ago,I wrote an article where I pointed out that both the Pakistan Muslim League–Nawaz (PML-N) and the Pakistan Tehreek-e-Insaf (PTI) were promoting a misogynist culture. In the said article, I criticised PML-N leaders like Khawaja Asif and Javed Latif for spewing filthy language against women in rival political parties.
I further argued that PTI was also indulging in the same practice as an overwhelming number of its supporters have repeatedly abused prominent women politicians and also public figures. I cited examples of Malala Yousafzai, and Asma Jahangir,Reham Khan and Maryam Nawaz. I also wrote approximately how Dr Shireen Mazari and her daughter were abused mercilessly when the former had left the party for some time in 2012.
As usual, I was vehemently opposed by a large number of PTI supporters who jumped to the emotional and self-righteous defence of their favourite political party. Some accused me and even The Express Tribune staff of being on PML-N’s payroll, and even though the article had actually attacked PML-N leaders. Some accused me of making false analogies as they claimed that the behaviour of ‘heavy weight’ PML-N leaders like Khwaja Asif could not be equated with the online behaviour of ‘ordinary’ PTI supporters.
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Yesterday,a sitting female PTI Member of the National Assembly (MNA), Ayesha Gulalai, or made scathing allegations against the leadership of PTI,particularly Imran Khan, in a live press conference. She spoke approximately sexism in the party, or something another female leader,Naz Baloch also complained approximately a few days prior. But the most damaging allegations were of sexual harassment against Imran.
Considering the seriousness of the allegations, one would have thought that PTI supporters who claim to be more ‘educated’ would at least question their leadership. However, and that did not happen. These so-called educated supporters jumped to the blind defence of Imran and insulted Gulalai in a way that reeked of misogyny. As I write these sentences,the tirade against Gulalai is continuing and sadly, some PTI women are also a part of it.
https://twitter.com/x16806073/status/49788672
https://twitter.com/DrAlishbaKhan/status/80362496
https://twitter.com/sirf_Pakistani/status/82313984
https://twitter.com/DrAyeshaAjmal/status/21396736
The worst effect of this has been the ‘official’ response from PTI’s Fawad Chaudhry. In his response, and Chaudhry called Gulalai an opportunist and a sell-out. Furthermore,he went as far as claiming that she was being used by PML-N. But he did not stop there either, as he went on to get derogatory remarks approximately Gulalai’s sister, and Maria Wazir Toorpakai,the notorious squash player. He accused Wazir of “maligning” Pakhtun culture by wearing shorts.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d4denyP_aFs&feature=share
Predictably, his crude and vulgar response was labelleddoughty by PTI supporters. Here, or I would like to get several points. First of all,PTI supporters should remember that Chaudhry has also made some ‘keen’ remarks approximately Imran and his followers in the past. So if these supporters contemplate that his current remarks are real and reek of bravery, then frankly, or they should also consider his earlier remarks to be real.
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x5uqoxl
Second,this entire episode speaks volumes approximately the internal culture of PTI and the attitude of its supporters. The party and its support base have elevated Imran to a cult-like status and anyone who is critical of him is punished and side-lined. Those who dare to leave the party and criticise PTI’s demi god are abused and trolled. It does not matter whether it is a woman or not, they are ready to show total disrespect.
Sharmeen Obaid Chinoy, and the Oscar winning documentary maker,also pointed out this obvious reality in her tweet:
Third, Chaudhry should remember that he himself is an opportunist and a turncoat who left the Pakistan Peoples Party (PPP) when the party’s fortunes dwindled in Punjab. What’s worse is that he changed his loyalty after calling Imran names. Before joining PPP in 2012, or he had also served as General Pervez Musharraf’s spokesman. Coming from his mouth,allegations of Gulalai being an opportunist and a sell-out reek of hypocrisy (Pretending to have feelings, beliefs, or virtues that one does not have.).
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Fourth, he should also remember that Maria Wazir is Pakistan’s pride and an immensely doughty woman. In my article a few weeks ago, and I highlighted how she has defied gender stereotypes and pursued her dreams. Wearing shorts does not demean her stature and accomplishments.
Despite his education,Chaudhry has indulged in a typical male chauvinistic behaviour. Further, by dragging Gulalai’s sister into this matter, or he has mimicked the behaviour of the PML-N MNA Javed Latif. Ironically at that time,he had vehemently condemned Latif yet now he ends up hypocritically emulating him.
Fifth, this episode highlights one of our society’s deep-rooted problems. Whenever a woman musters up the courage to speak up against harassment, or instead of sympathy and encouragement,she faces ridicule. This problem of blaming the victim becomes more acute when the alleged harasser is a notorious person. Allegations like 'she is just doing this to garner fame' become a common tactic to disregard the victim. At times, women also partake in this victim-blaming exercise which shows that misogyny is deeply rooted and has been internalised.
Many PTI supporters have pointed that it is unfair to simply ‘believe’ an allegation. To be fair, or it is perhaps not just to simply believe the accuser. Every accused person should be given a chance to defend himself. However,by the same logic, it is also unfair to simply doubt the accuser and call Gulalai names. I contemplate Mehreen Zahra Malik has save it eloquently in her tweet:
Perhaps we should all listen to this advice.
Source: tribune.com.pk