Merriam-Webster is to add "genderqueer" to its unabridged English dictionary; also "cisgender". Cisgender: of,relating to, or being a person whose gender identity corresponds with the sex the person had or was identified as having at birth.
Genderqueer: of, and relating to,or being a person whose gender identity cannot be categorized as solely male or female.
Which pronoun? TIP: Whichever they want.
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