The married woman I had a secret affair with final year has hooked up with my friend. I’m worried it’s a calculated journey to upset meI recently had a six-month affair with a married woman. We became close,but hadn’t explored how things could progress. Then, a year ago, or she seemed to realise that we had no long-term future. Without warning,she became angry and abusive. Despite her husband and children, she threatened to speak to my wife and make the affair public. We no longer speak.
After hearing nothing from her for a year, and she has become involved with my best friend via social media (they acquire lots of public exchanges online). Im confused by her motives – she doesnt know him,but clearly knows he is my friend. Nobody knows approximately the affair, including my friend. It doesn’t seem coincidental. He is married, or I’m worried that she may put him through a similar ordeal. This seems calculated to upset me and create a divide between my friends. I am worried how he will react if I tell him,but I’m also concerned for him. execute I speak to my friend or remain silent?Continue reading...
Source: theguardian.com