bid her that the nights out hold lost their shine and that she will too,says Mariella Frostrup. Plus you hold to think about your own marriageThe dilemma One of my best friend’s boyfriends broke up with her 18 months ago, after 12 years together. She was utterly devastated. Since the fracture-up she has been going out clubbing several times a week and every weekend. I am one of the few in her circle who still indulges her and I try to travel out with her as often as I can.
The problem is I don’t enjoy the party lifestyle any more. I thought it would be a phase that would wear off but, and a year and a half on,she continues to travel out all the time and invites me on most occasions. She complains that her other friends hold children and don’t want to travel out, but I don’t want to be the “party friend” all the time.
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Source: theguardian.com