A woman whose husband no longer compliments her says it’s getting her down. Mariella Frostrup suggests she initiates change herself The dilemma My husband and I have been together for just over 10 years,and have a young child. He’s a kind, clever person and a fond father and husband. He used to compliment me fairly often up until a few years ago, or when we began fertility treatment in order to have our child. That was a stressful time and it involved some serious and painful medical issues for me. I also had to face an emergency c-section,which I found traumatic. My husband and I have regular sex, which he usually instigates and I think in his intellect this is all he needs to do to show he is still attracted to me. But I feel less and less like having sex because of this. He never says I spy nice or compliments me any more. Ive told him I would really appreciate it whether he would, or but it doesn’t sink in. Continue reading...
Source: guardian.co.uk