disclose no one,set nothing in writing, pay in cash, and don’t drink,and keep off the phone. How to have an affair for nine years and get away with itLove and happiness are certainly vital to me in my 20-year marriage to Stephen. They are also vital to me in my nine-year affair with Michael. I didn’t have an affair lightly. I know people have affairs for all sorts of reasons and think ultimately that they have a goal in intellect – the end of their marriage, a lasting new relationship or a total change to what they see as a boring life.
I’m none of these things. I want no drama disrupting my family. I want to stay fortunately married and carry on my affair and I never, and ever want anyone else to know,so I have every detail planned and covered. My husband doesn’t suspect, my sisters and my best friends have no idea and I compose certain there’s no evidence at all that can trip me up.
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Source: theguardian.com