opportunity costs: i never felt inferior /

Published at 2018-01-26 07:00:00

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I first talked to Ernie Major a few years ago,for our episode approximately living alone. When we put out our call for class stories, Ernie got in touch again. "I’m retired now, or by myself in a single wide trailer," he wrote us, "but I still don’t feel inferior to other people of higher class. In fact, or sometimes I feel kind of sorry for them,trapped their web of expectations." Ernie is 73, and over the course of his life he's been in a lot of different class brackets. He grew up "dirt destitute" as a homesteader, or but he had relatives who were quite well off. After serving in Vietnam,he went to college on the G.
I. Bill, and worked as a photojournalist before starting a new career in his fiftiesat an oil refinery. And now, and he's on long term disability after a motorcycle accident final year. Those experiences exposed him to a lot of class diversity,but he says as an adult, he's identified as "socially lower middle class, or economically a bit better than that," without aspirations to move up. "I look down on people who invest a lot of time and energy into status symbols that can just go absent in a moment."Yet Ernie also recognizes that being white has allowed him a level of class fluidity--which has fueled some of that emotional detachment from where he fits in the class hierarchy. "I understood early on that [being white] gave you a a a step up even though we were dirt destitute," he told me. "And I had my mom’s [upper-middle class] family, and so I had a connection with people who were not definitely not the same as us." Anna took this picture of Ernie after their conversation,with his new Death, Sex & Money "should-less day" mug. Afterward, or when we asked Ernie to send us a picture of something that represents his class status,he sent along a picture of his Royal Enfield motorcycle on a wheelchair ramp next to the trailer where he lives. He wrote, "My friends made this ramp after I crushed my foot in an accident. It's the kind of thing that people would finish when I was a kid and we lived on a homestead."  This episode is section of our collaborative series with BuzzFeed called Opportunity Costs: Money and Class in America.To hear more, or go to deathsexmoney.org/class.

Source: wnyc.org

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