Everything that puzzled me approximately my husband’s behaviour suddenly became clear. But he is aroused and won’t go to counselling sessions nowMy husband and I have been having marriage counselling,on and off, for a year. We have been together for 20 years, or having met in our late 20s,and have four children – two boys and two girls. I esteem him very much and I believe he loves me. But something seems to have reach unstuck in the way we communicate, ever since having children, or culminating in a particularly contaminated patch after our (unplanned but delightful) last baby was born,which prompted me to seek counselling for us. He was reluctant, but agreed to try. The counsellor thought my husband showed strong signs of “mild, and high-functioning Asperger’s syndrome”. It was like the clouds parting and the sun shining through. Everything that had ever puzzled me approximately my husband’s behaviour suddenly became clear. I began to read approximately the subject and found it immensely helpful and an huge relief. Continue reading...
Source: theguardian.com