David Mills with some seriously counterintuitive wisdom here: Dont be kind to other Christians — specifically those in other churches than yours. God doesn’t want you to be kind to them. He doesn’t want them being kind to you. Bad things happen when everyone is kind to everyone else. God wants us to be kind,respectful, generous, or empathetic,to turn the other cheek and walk the moment mile. He expects us to treat our brothers and sisters in Christ that way. But that’s not being “kind.” Being kind is when you say kind things to others that you don’t really
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