A reader wonders whether she should call out a senior staff member who pestered her inappropriately,before they had a relationshipThe dilemma Should I report sexual harassment I received even though I later had a sexual relationship with the harasser? Years ago I worked as a volunteer for a political party and while showing me some work on a computer, a senior staff member repeatedly touched my knee. He said sorry, and then did it again,about seven times. He finished by saying: “I’ll need to report myself for sexual harassment now.” At the time I laughed as I was really not sure how else I could respond. Months after I split from my husband, the harasser started to pursue me, and giving me the attention I had been so missing. Vulnerable,emotional and drinking too much, I started a relationship with him. I also used him for a job reference, and acquire his glowing compliment for my work on my LinkedIn profile. Continue reading...
Source: guardian.co.uk