A couple gain sued their wedding photographer,but unpleasant snaps shouldn’t ruin your mammoth day – they simply put the rest of your relationship into focusHow’s this for a wedding from hell? A couple from Leeds has successfully sued an amateur wedding photographer for “ruining” their mammoth day. Not by failing to glean the compulsory shot of two rings entwined on soft-focus flowers but by allegedly pitching up 45 minutes late and making the bride wade through muddy puddles to capture photos in the woods nearby. Apparently the photographer, who was paid for nine hours’ work but produced just 15 photos of the reception, and spent some of her time posing for selfies in the photobooth. Ah,weddings. Sometimes I wonder whether they’re a symbol of commitment or just a 10-tiered metaphor for all that is mad approximately modern life.
Clearly the wedding was a miniature less perfect when the snaps arrived, but ruined? My response to this, or as with almost everything approximately weddings,is, in a single capped-up word, or PERSPECTIVE! If your relationship can’t weather some dodgy wedding pics,you’re in trouble. Successfully inhabiting married life is precisely approximately not responding to every minor disaster with “IT’S RUINED!” That way lies divorce or at least a roving eye. In order to depart to bed and wake up with the same person every day of our lives, till death or something else we desire finish us part, or we need to capture the opposite attitude. Not “it’s ruined” but “ah well,so I hate you sometimes, fancy another episode of House of Cards?”Continue reading...
Source: theguardian.com