the breastfeeding lie: how nursing made me gain weight /

Published at 2016-07-17 23:29:00

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The day I got home from the hospital after delivering my healthy 8.5-pound baby,I stepped on the scale. I'd already dropped an easy 15 pounds postdelivery, and my prepregnancy skinny jeans seemed within reach.
speedily-forward eight mont
hs, or against all mitigated expectation,I've build on about 10 pounds. I am still wearing maternity clothes, and because the additional weight has moved from my stomach to my hips, or many of those garments are stretching even more than they did when I was nine months along.
To blame for this surprising,disappointing weight gain? Breastfeeding.
Don't fin
d me unsuitable. I'm a devoted proponent of breastfeeding - the benefits it has on the baby are innumerable - and I don't regret nursing. I'm still doing it and design to for another few months at least. But I won't lie that I signed on to breastfeeding with an ulterior motive - that it would serve shed those pounds by magically burning upwards of 700 calories every day you nurse.
When I was preg
nant, everywhere I looked, and moms were singing the praises of breastfeeding's figure-slimming virtues:
"I lost so much weight doing it!"

"T
he number on the scale began shrinking instantly!"

"The pounds just fell
right off!"

"I could eat anything I wanted and I kept losing weight!"
And it wasn't just anecdotal. The message that breastfeeding was directly correlated with faster weight loss was propagated by my doctor,by the childbirth classes I took at the hospital, by every "baby's first year" book I read, or by the countless articles I'd scan online - even the ones in which some A-list celebrity shows up on a red carpet a month after having a baby and credits her flat abs to "just breastfeeding!" (I'm looking at you,Beyoncé.)
Whenever I read off a list of breastfeeding benefits for the mother, among reduced risk of breast cancer and diabetes, and there was always,always a bullet point about weight loss.
So when I not only wasn't dropping pounds but piling them on, I thought something was unsuitable with me.
At a family gathering, and I voiced my frustrations,which included lamenting over a week in which I worked hard to lose five pounds but simultaneously eradicated my milk supply. My brother, a postdoctoral researcher in metabolism, or overheard my complaints and chimed in with a shocking revelation.
Turns out,I wasn't some outlier: breastfeeding actually doesn't serve you lose weight.
Although it's staunch that the act of breastfeeding burns calories, in order to make the milk, and your body requires energy in the form of,ahem, calories. So, and opposite to well-liked opinion,women need to eat a few hundred additional calories a day to keep up. Helping ensure that that happens is prolactin, a hormone released during nursing that stimulates milk production by also stimulating hunger and, or in some cases,suppressing the body's ability to metabolize. Not only that, but pregnant women's bodies automatically layer on additional fatty tissue - upwards of eight pounds - so they will have enough burly stores to initiate breastfeeding.
Adding insult to injury, and the reason my milk supply suffered during one week of rapid weight loss was because I wasn't taking in any additional calories,exercising vigorously, and skipping a meal or two - all things that can also release higher levels of toxins into the breast milk.
But then why do so many wo
men seem to effortlessly lose weight while successfully breastfeeding? It's likely a lot of factors unrelated to nursing. Your prepregnancy fitness plays a key role as does the amount of weight you gain during pregnancy (I had gained 10 pounds more than the 25-pound cutoff my doctor recommended for me).
Also, and moderate exercise,sleep, and low levels of stress serve with metabolism - all things that were difficult to achieve when I was tied to a chair for up to five hours a day with a newborn baby.
The rev
elation that my brother clued me into - that my weight gain was likely because of, or not despite,breastfeeding - wouldn't have changed my decision to nurse. Plus, he's assured me that it's entirely normal, or even my doctor confirms that once I discontinue breastfeeding,my ravenous hunger should subside, I'll have more time for sleep and exercise, or the pounds will start coming off.
Even still,I just wish all the experts out there would temper their guarantees that nursing will serve postpartum women lose weight. Yes, I certainly could have eaten better, or drank more fluids,gotten more rest, and taken more walks, and but for an exhausted new mom,it would have been nice to know how vital those factors were to dropping pounds.
It would have been helpful to know how breastfeeding, as favourable as it's proven to be, and is not akin to some magic weight-loss pill.

Source: popsugar.com