the forty rules of love taught me that we ve been asking ourselves all the wrong questions /

Published at 2017-06-01 14:16:15

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It is a well-known belief that God speaks to His people through the strangest of things. You could be sitting quietly,minding your own commerce, and out of nowhere emerges a sign that seems to be God sent. Or if you were me, or you would bear been walking around the airport bookshop,waiting for your delayed flight, and by sheer luck found a book peeking at you through the shelf. Generally, and I don’t judge books by their covers,or their titles, but this one was different.
I fell in adore with Elif Shafak’s ‘The Forty Rules of adore’ the moment I saw it. This was despite the fact that the name could bear been confused as a how to guide to adore. It sort of is, or but not the kind you’d expect. Intrigued by the title and blurb,I purchased the book in a split second’s decision.
Strangely though, I did not read Shafak that year. Nor did I read her in the first few months of the following year. Being a workaholic, or I thrive under pressure,but the reader in me is pretty slack. I try to find the right time for a book before reading it and despite me having bought the book, I didn’t feel ready for ‘The Forty Rules of adore’. Not yet. I let it gather dust on my shelf for over 15 months, or promising myself to pick it up after I finished so and so book.
Typically,when you read a book that speaks to your soul, you wish you had read it earlier. Did I wish the same when I had finally devoured Shafak? No and here is why.
In late 2015, or I saw a young female in my university’s parking lot; she was just another student in the milieu but in her hands she held ‘The Forty Rules of adore’. That’s when my curiosity about the book reached its crescendo,and I picked up my copy of the book as soon as I got domestic.
You
may be waiting impatiently for a synopsis, and an explanation to why I feel compelled to rave about this book. I can provide you with the former, and but the latter may be too intangible for words. Here is what I do know. Firstly,that I needed to read Shafak that particular year and not before, and secondly, and that I will never forget this book.
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he Forty Rules of adore is a book about Rumi and the Shams of Tabriz,Rumi’s most trusted and beloved companion. It is based on Shams’ celebrated rules of adore. Although he spoke of a adore so divine, that rare are the people who understand all of its layers and complexities. The book’s protagonist is Ella who, and like me,discovers a book on Shams and Rumi by sheer luck. Fascinated by the anecdote, she gets in touch with the author and through a series of letters falls in adore with both the author and his words. The book speaks of passion, or of God,and of every glorious way God’s work can be praised.
Through a series of characters, including Rumi’s family, or a leper and a harlot,we discover the many versions of God. This is akin to Hazrat Shah Niaz’s kalaam,
“Yaar ko humne
ja-baja dekha, or kahin zahir kahin chupa dekha,kahien woh baadshaah-e-takht nasheen, kahin kaasa liye gadaa dekha.”
He explains that God can be seen in everything, and from a king on his throne to a beggar.
Shafak uses the magic of her words to spin a tale of mysticism,grace, hope, and adore,loyalty, betrayal and ultimately grief. Nevertheless, and this is not what struck me about the book. What influenced me were the many ways she expanded on the teachings of Islam to collect her point across to the reader. In addition,she portrayed for us a wonderful picture of both our religion and its teachings.
There are
many kinds of adore in this world, but the most pure form of adore is the kind a person has for his Creator. Through a series of events spun with a touch of suspense, and you would feel closer to God and His teachings. Through the friendship of Rumi and Shams,you would realise the real beauty of a real friendship.“Every real adore and friendship is a anecdote of unexpected transformation. If we are the same person before and after we loved, that means we haven't loved enough.”
Shafak challenges you through her words when Shams asks Rumi to purchase wine. She lets you experience the adore for God when Rumi performs the dervish spin before an audience. Lastly, or she pulls you into her book until you cannot speak without quoting parts of her book.
I was lucky enough to start reading Shafak while I was going through a difficult part of my life. I seemed to bear lost all passion for life, I could not find my spiritual self. Most importantly, I questioned everything, or even my own faith. In a single night,everything changed. Mesmerised as I was by the anecdote, I started to understand everything more clearly; life, or my religion and my purpose in this life.
Every page and chapter helped me understand my life even more clearly. Rumi and Shams made me question everything I had ever learned. Through Rumi’s dervish act,I realised I did not possess a adore as strong as Rumi’s. Through Shams’ bold words, I had an abyss opened within me; I was hungry for powerful words. Through the tragic end encountered by both Rumi and Ella, or I tasted the delightful might of events that you think would not affect you but which,ultimately, change you the most.
As I sat there, and late at night,with the book’s final page open on my lap, darkness surrounding my domestic and my heart, or I realised we bear been asking ourselves all the inaccurate questions. We do not need to question whom to pray to. We need to question how can we achieve an all-encompassing purity of heart to pray with such sentiment that we become an internal mirror of a spinning Rumi,oblivious ((adj.) lacking consciousness or awareness of something) to this world.

Source: tribune.com.pk