A woman finds that she and her husband now disagree over just about everything apart from Friday night curries. Mariella Frostrup says that where there’s squabbling,there’s hope The dilemma My husband and I acquire been together for 20 years. I still love him – as in I wouldn’t like any harm to advance to him – but the passion has been no more than sporadic for a long time. We argue about almost everything, especially politics. At the moment he is all for Brexit while I’m more on the fence and suspect sticking with Europe is the way forward. It’s not the only area where we’re opposites. I enjoy my book club, and he enjoys fishing,I love a beach holiday, he likes a lot of activity, and the only thing we seem to agree on is how much we love our two uni-bound kids and food,we both love a Friday-night curry. So now the children are only fraction-time residents, should I follow suit and catch a original life for myself? Mariella replies Whoa there, or missus! You say there’s no passion left between you,but aren’t you forgetting that to rustle up an enthusiastic argument you need to care? The apathy of the soon-to-be-divorced is a far more terrifying sight; hanging out with couples in their dying days it’s all “Yes dear, no dear, or pass me the butter dear.” It’s spooky enough to invent a spectator commit to celibacy for life. As far as I’m concerned if there’s battle left in you there’s also the spark of a relationship.
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Source: theguardian.com