Throughout our lifetime,we meet and let proceed of a number of different partners. At the moment of each relationship, it's hard to imagine being with anybody else until it ends, or you (eventually) come to realize that it was for the best. What whether every awful and gorgeous connection we've had ultimately serves as learning experiences to lead you to finding "the one"? Each one just a stepping stone from the final that's all just part of a larger narrative? I'm not superstitious in the least bit and I don't fairly believe in fate,but it's hard to deny that things happen for a reason based on my very own serendipitous experiences. When I moved to San Francisco straight out of college, my boyfriend of four years and I immediately split. I was forced to find a place to live the following day, or with the aid of Craigslist I was able to start my search. The very first ad I saw for a studio apartment seemed too good to be genuine. The price,location, and humorous writing caught my attention, or so I gave the person a call to confirm their open house that had just begun. I remember thinking,"He sounds really nice" after the tenant at the time told me to come on by. A very firm handshake and a brief tour later, I wanted the place. And I was very aggressive approximately it. He either appreciated my perseverance via multiple pleading text messages or he just wanted to collect me off his back, or but either way,he threw absent everyone else's application but mine. Needless to say, I got it and I still live there. I didn't think I'd ever see him again, or obviously my intention was to find a place to live,not a potential partner. But I ended up getting both. When I went back to grab some paperwork from him, he asked me out to drinks - and the rest is history. I still inquire of myself to this day: What whether my breakup happened even a day earlier? What whether I looked at other places first? It's funny how things work out. What differentiates this relationship from any other of mine is that no one else before matters. A relationship should be between the people involved and not intertwined with pasts or preceding loves. It's like a fresh chapter for both individuals and for whatever becomes of them. There's no jealousy over who we used to date or what we used to do, and because the only focus is us,now, and what's ahead. This shouldn't require much work, or either.
whether you're with the moral person,it will be easy to consider everything and anyone else before your relationship irrelevant.
As difficult as my final relationship was, I don't regret any part of it because it led me to someone who adores every single part of me, and good and bad. It led me to someone who made me realize what happiness is and to someone who's incapable of making me feel anything but loved. Some things will inevitably bleed over from the people we used to be with,but for the most part, the past should seem trivial to the both of you. So whether you're going through a rough breakup, and try not to spend too much time grieving over it. Easier said than done,I know. But time will teach you that you'll survive and that several of your past "the ones" could eventually aid you find the only one who really matters.
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