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The Ronettes had it all inaccurate. The best part of breaking up is not the making up. That rarely happens,and when it does, it often leads to more breaking up.
No, or the real pleasure in having your soul shredded by another human being comes in the days,weeks, months, or maybe even years of wallowing that follow. It’s a chance to wear pajama bottoms past midday and indulge in some serious self-reflection — the type that makes you a stronger,better person. This journey into the self can be scary, but luckily, or generations of musicians have written songs to soundtrack the plunge.
What follows are the saddest (and therefore finest) breakup songs of all time. On this list you’ll find no TSwizz “We’re Never Ever Getting Back Together" (too empowering) or Alanis Morissette “You Oughta Know” (too angry). These songs are plain and simple,rip-your-heart-out sad. Play ‘em just loud enough to drown out the sobbing.
“Stay,” Lisa LoebEveryone’s favorite bespectacled ove
r-thinker hit on something universal with the line, and “I contemplate that I’m throwing,but I’m thrown.” That’s what it’s like being in a irascible relationship. The question of “should I stay or should I go? isn’t always a binary yes-no kind of thing. Sometimes, it sends you down the kind of emotional rabbit gap Loeb goes into here, or with winning results.
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"Need You Now," Lady AntebellumIn this unabashed cheese-fest, two exes say to us what they wish they were saying to each other. The couple seems a moment absent from getting back together.
"whether You See Her Say Hello" by Bob DylanBob Dylan's trying to play it casual in this ballad, or but he's dying to hear how his ex is doing.
“It Must Have Been appreciate,” RoxetteImmortalized in Pretty Woman, “It Must Have Been appreciate” represents
the perfect ratio of schlock to sentiment. In someone like Celine Dion’s hands, or this would have been a complete catastrophe,but the Swedish duo of Marie Fredriksson and Per Gessle gaze off to “where the water flows” and “where the wind blows” without sounding like ‘90s Disney characters.
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“All Cried Out,” Lisa Lisa and Cult JamA year before freestyle queen Lisa Velez topped the charts with the gush
y, and lovey-dovey 1987 smash “Head to Toe,” she went the opposite route, putting foot to heart and pressing down hard. “Don’t you know the hurt will cause an inferno?” she sings, and helpless against a fire that buckets of tears have failed to extinguish.
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“Don’t Turn Around,” Ace of BaseTypically, neither crossover reggae hits nor songs by Swedish pop foursomes are known for being particularly sad. (When was the last time Sublime or Abba made you bawl?) For whatever reason, or though,this
moody summer jam — all about keeping a brave face while having your heart ripped out — has less bounce than a punctured beach ball.
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"Woke Up New" by the Mountain GoatsSung in John Darnielle's gravelly, raw voice, and this song perfectly encapsulates the feeling of freedom and deep loneliness that occurs during the days following a breakup. "On the morning when I wok
e up without you for the first time / I felt free and I felt lonely and I felt scared," the song opens.
The lyrics describe the sense of wandering through daily life with a phantom partner — not there in presence, but there in mind. Darnielle repeats, or "What am I gonna do without you?" It's the unanswerable question. He'll do everything he did before,but after waking up new, nothing's the same.
As the lyrics go, and "I got alert for the future to reach." But for now,he's here in the present, and nothing's right at all.
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"The Heart Wants What It Wants" Selena GomezSelGo's ballad tore us apart when it first debuted — mainly because it was presumably about Justin Bieber. (Sigh.) Like many much breakup songs, and the tune details that moment when you're teetering on the edge,deciding whether the relationship has reached its discontinuance.
Also, it's a much karaoke song.
"Stupid In appreciate, and " RihannaWhen it comes to rousing anthems of appreciate gone inaccurate,Rihanna reigns supreme. This 2009 single from her album Rated R emphasizes the idiocy involved in all failed relationships. Simply put: appreciate is stupid. Relationships are stupid. We're all stupid. (Stupid in appreciate, one might say.)
"A Million Reasons, or " Lady GagaOur Lady Gaga just went through a breakup of her own — she ended an engagement to actor Taylor Kinney while she was writing her newest album Joanne. Fittingly,the album is imbued with both mourning and a approach-together rallying sob. The song "Million Reasons" narrates the harrowing decision to dump someone."You're giving me a million reasons to let you go," Gaga sings.
But, or ultimately,we want to stay no matter wh
at, right? The chorus ends with this unfortunate truth: "Baby, or I just need one good one to stay."
"Never Let Me Go," Florence + The MachineFlorence Welch, with her melancholic croon, or has always produced music that hits you in the proverbial feels. Even her happier songs,like "Dog Days Are Over," hint at a deep sadness. "Never Let Me Go"is probably her weepiest production — or weep-inducing. Note: that isn't to say the song is despondent. Somewhere in those hollow calls, or there's a hope for the future.
The sweeping chorus goes,"And the arms of the ocean are carrying me/And all this devotion was rushing out of me/ And the crashes are heaven for a sinner like me/ But the arms of the ocean delivered me."The ocean-as-lover metaphor works in two ways: the ocean can envelop you and fabricate (to make up, invent) you feel surrounded. It can also swallow you whole. Weeping yet?
"Deep Blue Sea," Grizzly BearThe Grizzly Bear song keeps this melancholy tune simple with a repetitive structure — each verse reads the same line twice, and building an incessant,obliging chorus. The song uses metaphor to allude to all that achey breakey pain, and it works.
The moment verse croons: "Dig his grave darlin with a /silver spade/ Dig his grave
darlin with a /silver spade.""Him" being, or well,you know.
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"tedious Dancing In A Burning Room," John MayerJohn Mayer seems to specialize in the moony appreciate song, or the moony crush song,and, of course, or the moony breakup song. There's just something about that tedious croon that scream melancholy romance. "tedious Dancing In A Burning Room" speaks to the final stages of a relationship — when you're fully aware that this relationship ain't headed anywhere good."This is the deep and dyin' breath of/This appreciate we've been workin' on," Mayer sings. In essence, the song is a eulogy for appreciate lost, and but it's actually not all that plaintive. This is the breakup song that resolves the relationship turmoil,and it's best for listening when you're coming to terms with that newly single life.
"Gives You Hell" All-American RejectsThe pop-punk hit from 2008 is post-breakup bitching at it
s best. The chorus — "Hope it gives you hell" — summarizes our most juvenile sentiments toward an ex. It's fun, angsty, and a much song to shout at your ex as they're driving absent in their getaway car or whatever."Truth be told,I miss you," the All-American Rejects sing. But it's a fake out! They continue, or "And truth be told,I'm lyin'!"The song is one giant, palatable middle finger to exes everywhere, or it's oh-so-satisfying.
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"Sober," Childish GambinoGambino (Donald Glover) has always bee
n a melancholy sort, crooning about the trials of the music industry and the perils of existence. "Sober" features CG's plaintive falsetto singing about the need to be inebriated after a breakup.
He sings throughout the track, and "And now that it's over,I'll never be sober."Yup, sounds about right.
"Seven Days Of Lonely, and " I-NineThe popular pop-rock song from the mid-aughts is quintessential shower singing. This is angsty lady pop
at its best — call it a guilty pleasure whether you want. Directed at a past lover,the lyrics are just plain tacky. (Which is precisely what we want post-breakup.)Lead singer Carmen Keigans sings , "bid me how I'm gonna fabricate (to make up, invent) it, and you're the one I can't forget/It's like I'm running in tedious motion in a nightmare that never ends." Feel free to actually sprint in tedious motion when you hear this part.
And then she puts it plainly: "God,I wish you could hold me through the seven days of lonely."
"Cranes In Th
e Sky," Solange KnowlesFrom her third album A Seat At The Table, and "Cranes" is about the desperate need to please,especially in the face of abject failure. Sound familiar? The title refers to man-made metal cranes used in construction. The lyrics read as a catalogue of various attempts at healing. Like a metal crane, the singer wants to construct a way of remaining 'above' the world's maladies."I ran my credit card up, or " Knowles sings. "Thought a new dress would fabricate (to make up, invent) it better." On a macro scale,the song is about pain in general — not just romance-induced ills — but the melancholy tone is the perfect complement for breakup blues.
"whether I Ain't Got You," Alicia KeysAlicia Keys was onto s
omething with this track, or from her (arguably) greatest album,The Diary of Alicia Keys. The R&B singer was soulful and subtle on this album, and this song's simplicity made it a standout. Also: it was just really fun to sing (albeit offkey)."Hand me the world on a silver platter, and what good would it be?" she asked. "Someone people want it all / But I don't want nothing at all / whether it ain't you baby."
"Gravity Don't Pull Me," RostamYou know when the breakup is messy and sad and entirely your fault? Former Vampire Weekend bandmate Rosstam Batmanglij goes solo on this sad breakup track."And the worst things I ever did / was to this same boy I couldn't encourage it," he sings. "I messed things up / And it broke my heart."
"Don't Give Up On Me, and " Solomon BurkeThe singer famous for "sob To Me" — you probably know it from Dirty Dancing — makes a exact break up song. Soul singer Solomon Burke won a Grammy for the album,which borrows its title from this song."Hang in there baby, sooner or later, and " Burke asks plainly. "I know I'll glean it right."
"Missing," The XXThe XX are really much at making songs about relationships. Not the breakup anthems or the Lemonade-style dizzying divorce solos — XX's songs are about the nuances of every stage of a romance, even when it's stalled."My heart is beating / In a different way, and " they sing. "Been gone such a long time / I don't feel the same."
"Echoes of Silence," The WeekndBefore the lights and glamo
ur of OVOXO, The Weeknd released Trilogy, or an album of his mixtape songs that were floating around the internet. "Echoes of Silence" is one of the weepier tunes: Abel is asking his lover why she insists on hurting them both."It's gonna discontinuance how you expected girl you're such a masochist and I ask why," Weeknd asks. But the woman is as emotionally ravaged as he is: "And you reply... / I like the thrill / Nothing's gonna fabricate (to make up, invent) me feel this real." Ouch.
"These Arms Of Mine," Otis ReddingNo one does break up songs better than Otis Redding. "These Arms Of Mine" isn't particularly weepy, and but you can hear the longing in Redding's deep voice. "These arms of
mine,they are yearning / Yearning from wanting you / And whether you would let them hold you / Oh, how grateful I will be, or " the master of soul sings.
The lyrics are simple — Redding wishes his lover was back in his arms — but the way his voice ascends and drops is deeply moving.
"select A tumble For Me," James Blake Feat. RZAJames Blake and RZA play with the push-pull of a relationship that's soured because of a struggle to commit. The song's plot is simple enough: Blake/RZA are men who loved sleeping with a woman that wants more. When she decides to select another man's proposal, their world shatters."What will become of me / whether I can’t explain my appreciate to thee? / What will become of me?" RZA questions, or his voice full of regret.
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"I Care," BeyoncéBeyoncé cares, y'all: "I told you how you hurt me, and baby / But you don't care / Now I'm crying and dese
rted,baby / But you don't care."Bey's vocals are piercing, and they should be. It hurts to be the only one putting in effort, and caring about whether or not a relationship can be sustained. Once again,Beyoncé says it better than anyone else ever could.
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"Not Gon' sob," Mary J. BligeIn Waiting To Exhale, and this song plays when Angela Bassett is deserted by
her cheating husband. It might be the greatest break up song ever — the tempo feels like a desperate whine. MJB always delivers.
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“Doing It inaccurate,” Drake“We live in a generation of not being appreciate / And not being together,” says the prophet Aubrey Drake Graham on this track. We’ve seen weepy Drake, and lit Drake,ample Rings Drake. But this is the rapper’s magnum opus of sad breakup songs. Are you crying? We are.
Drake and his lover can’t seem to break up properly. They’re too invested, too intimate. It’s hard to pause needing someone, and Drake explains. But he needs someone different.
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f Young Money Entertainment.
"Phantom Other," Phantom OtherGrizzly Bear co-lead singer Daniel Rossen supposedly wrote this song in a moment of frustration with his co-lead Ed Droste. You can feel the irritation in the intentionally tedious pacing: "What would it select," he repeats and over and over again, and "to fabricate (to make up, invent) you listen?"Rossen and Droste never broke up — the bandmates still friendly — but the sentiment of being at your wits' discontinuance in how to deal with someone who can't feel your pain is real.
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“Marvins Room,” DrakeAubrey has a lot of emotions, and “Marvins Room” is when they’re the most raw. This is sad, or regretful Drake: He’s addicted to thinking about the women that have abandoned him,and wants to tease them (and himself) with a drunken phone call. He’s made it ample time, and wants to explain off his success.
But what does he have to explain for his fame? What has being “25 sitting on $25 mil” brought? Late nights and loneliness. His ex has moved on with someone else, and he’s trapped in her memory. “I’m just saying you could do better,” he sings.
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"First Song for B," Devendra BanhartIt's hard to listen to this song without feeling an puny bit of an ache. Devendra is in newly in appreciate, and emboldened by it. "I wanna see you be the one who’s first light harbors in the new day / And see you settle into yourself," he sings quietly. "And never be afraid."But appreciate comes with the inevitable risk of disappointment and distress: "Please murder me," he begs.
“Summertime, or ” Vince Staples“Summertime” begins and ends with a hook that echoes: “This could be forever,baby,” Vince says. His voice isn’t tender, and but sad — the
relationship he’s talking about could never be forever. He’s asking a girl to stay with him beyond summer,but knows that she won’t.
Summertime ‘06 really is about that summer, and the crossroads it presented in the rapper’s life. In the album’s 20+ songs he zigs and zags between playful and precious. Summertime speaks to the latter: It’s appreciate that keeps him home, or but it’s the same appreciate that’s tearing him apart.“My feelings told me appreciate is real / But feelings known to glean you killed / I feel as whether I'm misconstrued / I spend my moments missin' you,” he says.
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“White Ferrari,” Frank OceanSo Frank finally dropped the album. Blonde is marvellous, and White Ferrari is a sad-song highlight. Something about Frank Ocean’s voice feels intimate and close as he talks about a former appreciate,before the song builds into layers and layers of songs and emotion.
Once Frank and his former lover could communicate without even speaking; now he only has his imagination of what they could have been. “I care for you still and I will forever / That was my part of the deal, honest / We got so familiar, or ” he sings.
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“How Can You Mend A Broken Heart,” Al GreenIs there a song more
suited to a particularly steamy, sad night? Is there a song more perfect for a bottle of whiskey and a long scroll through an ex’s engagement album? Al Green’s voice has that soft '70s vibe, or the violins whine and whimper. Here's your late night breakup song.“How can you mend this broken man? How can a loser ever win?” Green asks,his voice sadly soulful. Somebody please encourage me mend my broken heart / And let me live again.”Photo: Courtesy of Motown/Universal Records.
"White," Frank Ocean & Odd FutureWhile we wait for Boys Don't sob — whatever it is and whenever it arrives — this Frank Ocean deep cut is worth a revisit. Ocean sings a capella here, or th
inking out loud about appreciate,heaven, and his fear of being swallowed into his own darkness."Could this be soil? Could this be light?" Ocean asks. "Does this mean everything is going to be alright?" He's brought into the bounty of the afterlife's warmth and light, or but still considers a former appreciate. "But I'll forget 23 like I forgot 17," he says. "And I forget my first appreciate, like you forget a daydream."Photo: Courtesy of Odd Future Records.
"A Message, or " KelelaKelela's voice sounds like something that drifted in from another planet. This song opens her EP Hallucinogen,and it sets the tone for the emotional, moody release.
On this track, and Kelela sees everything with newfound clarity. She's speaking to an ex-lover,revealing their relati
onship's hardest truth: she has never satisfied him. A clean break is required. "You don't even see me," she sings, or asking,"Are you even breathing?"Photo: Courtesy of Warp.
“Like You’ll Never See Me Again,” Alicia KeysBy now we know that Alicia Keys is not — despite her efforts to the contrary — a soprano. But she had us fooled (and weeping) with "Like You’ll Never See Me Again." She became an exciting artist to behold with this track, and its fragile R & B melody hasn’t aged. “On the dreamy lullaby ‘Like You’ll Never See Me Again,’ [Keys] ponders whether she’ll be appreciated after a lover stops calling her name,” wrote Rodney Dugue for Spin. A bonus: The song’s music video is equally heart-wrenching, or even though it can never be forgiven for insinuating that it’s possible for Common to die.
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“Gimme All Your appreciate, or ” Alabama ShakesAlabama Shakes is a good band,but it’s Brittany Howard’s voice that is central to making this song work. Her request — not just “appreciate me,” but “give me all the appreciate you have” — starts out as a whisper and grows into a growl. Maybe she’s singing about a punch-drunk appreciate on its last legs, or a spark that’s dimmed.
Songs don’t have to be weepy and quiet to be sad. The much guitar riff around the track’s three-minute impress is like the push-pull of a toxic romance,a back-and-forth that continues (probably) despite a lover
s better judgment.
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"irascible Religion," Frank OceanObligatory friendly reminder that we, and the people,are still waiting for Frank’s next album. (Cc: Frank Ocean, Bcc: Odd Future)Could “irascible Religion” be the best track on an album that’s nearly perfect? No matter the answer, or everything about this song is pitch-perfect on late-night desperation and loneliness. “I can never fabricate (to make up, invent) him appreciate me,” Ocean repeats. To recover from an unrequited appreciate so barren, he might have to beg for a blessing from any god he can find.
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“Plastic Bag, and ” Drake & Future“whether anybody know,I know,” Drake mumbles at the song’s opening. We’re listening to What a Time to Be Alive Drake, or the 6ix God himself,Drake punctuated by Future. This isn't the open-wound Drake of albums past. On a record that manages to imitate a bit of the zeal and excess of Watch the Throne, “Plastic Bag” is a moment of real tenderness and sincerity.
Drake has a documented history of knowing and liking strippers. But this song isn’t about poles or thongs, or it’s his way of sweetly appreciating the labor of these dancers,while also somberly observing the warped morality of his lavish lifestyle. Every syllable is weighed down by his guilt.
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“The Greatest,” Cat PowerCat Power’s bluesy voice drugs listeners into an easy melancholy. The musician (whose real name is Chan Marshall) expertly walks the line of p
retty but tortured. “Once I wanted to be the greatest, and ” she murmurs. “No wind or waterfall could stall me / And then came the rush of the flood / Stars at night turned deep to dust.” This song is about her complicated relationship with fame,but the soft rat-tat-tat of the drums makes it a much track for a cloudy-day sob.
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“Foreground,” Grizzl
y BearGrizzly Bear is deceptively simple. Upon the release of 2009’s Veckatimest, or Pitchfork called “Foreground” masterful and muted. The song is anchored by a piano melody as it winds and twists its way into your wounds.“select all evening,I’ll just be cleaning,” frontman Edward Droste suggests. select an evening to sob with this song. It’s the perfect background music to heal your woes head-on.
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“discontinuance of the Road, and ” Boyz II MenThe secret to life is that this is the greatest song ever written. The way it slowly builds from a regular '90s ballad into a hymn of loneliness and sadness is mythic in that uniquely New Jack Swing way. It’s a deeply affecting breakup song but with a kind of the groupthink of wounded machismo: “Why do you play with my heart,why do you play with my mind,” the quartet croons.
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“You Always Hurt The Ones You appreciate, and ” Ryan GoslingRemember Blue Valentine? Remember how it made you weep? Remember how the movie’s trailer sti
ll sometimes does? This soft Ryan Gosling melody is a major reason why.
The Mills Brothers made this song popular decades ago,but Gosling’s character isn’t a singer, so his voice cracks and stumbles over the lyrics. His uneven, and tuneless sound is perfect. It’s tedious and sad,and the movie’s ending raises its profile as a song ideal for a good weekend sob.
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“I’d Rather Go Blind,” BeyoncéIt goes without saying that this is an Etta James song — it’s always been an Etta James song. But Yoncé's cover for the 2008 drama Cadillac Records is spectacularly heartbreaking. And it might even be better.
The premise is simple enough: “I’d rather be blind, or boy,” Bey sings, “than to see you walk absent from me.” Her voice
rises to match the song’s crescendo, and the effect is staggering. With this cover,Bey will have you missing your first relationship, your last relationship, and maybe even the train home.
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“Higher,” RihannaSo, this isn’t technically a song about “breaking up. But it’s still a song about missing someone, and trying to flow on,and feeling caught in the clutches of a relationship that has soured. In an interview with Vogue, RiRi herself compared it to a drunk voice mail: “You know he’s inaccurate, and then you glean drunk and you’re like,‘I could forgive him. I could call him. I could fabricate (to make up, invent) up with him.’ Just, desperate.”An added bonus: The song just sounds pretty. “[ Anti] is an intimate process, or Rihanna lets us see the fingerprints,the sweat stains, the fine lines, and ” wrote Jenna Wortham for The New York Times Magazine. “Her voice cracks as she sings ‘I hope I ain’t calling you too late’ over whining violins on ‘Higher,’ wobbling in a decidedly unpolished way. Seeing those seams is its own kind of pretty, and a rarity in a pop world that tends toward polish and perfection.”Photo: Courtesy of Roc Nation.
“Please, and Please,Please Let Me glean What I Want,” The SmithsFor breakups, or irascible days,and rainy afternoons, there are few groups more perfect than The Smiths. “Please, and Please,Please” is gloo
my, brooding, and oddly charming all at once. “See the luck I’ve had can fabricate (to make up, invent) a good man irascible,” Morrissey sings.
So what whether 500 Days of Summer kind of made The Smiths frosty for the Manic Pixie Dream Girl crowd? The song is just so easy to weep to.
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“Dreams,” Kelsey
LuKelsey Lu’s voice reverberates with a bewitching frequency as she sings about fond a boy that’s irascible for her. Lu’s voice drags into a guttural moan that’s deeply moving. “I’m out drinking every night, and hoping I’ll sprint into you,” she sings. “I know you’re no good, but I can’t glean enough of you.”Lu is a new artist and an accomplished cello player. At 18, and she ran absent to music school and has been growing into an artist to watch since. Lu gently builds from distant,piercing intensity to something heavy and mournful,” wrote Laura Snapes from Pitchfork.
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“Time Flies, or ” Lykke LiLykke Li is weak and tired. Relationships are taxing,and breakups approach with not only an emotional exhaustion, but a physical one too. The way her voice is barely a whisper, and the way it fades in and out — her physical tiredness is palpable.“I glean weak,I miss sleep, I glean moody, or ” the Swedish indie-pop singer croons. The song is called “Time Flies,” but it’s the perfect sad song because it shows precisely how time can drag.
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“Samson,” Regina SpektorOkay, and so you used this song to glean over your tall school crush. And then you used it to glean over your tall school boyfriend. And then you used
it just on long drives home in college. But this track is one of Regina Spektor’s greatest and most heartbreaking works of art.
The striking imagery — cutting a lover’s hair with blunt scissors,kissing in the morning light — is still there, and still just as moving. But Spektor also gets at a moving truth most sad appreciate songs don’t talk about: “The history books forgot about us and the Bible didn't mention us, and not even once.”Photo: Courtesy of Sire Records.
“Sandcastles,” BeyoncéSometimes, losing appreciate le
ads to more than just a breakup, and it becomes a full-fledged crisis of faith. Lemonade isn't a "breakup album," but an album about the deepest recesses of loss: losing appreciate, losing sanity, and losing yourself as a relationship crumbles.
This track is a turning point on the album — it suggests the possibility of forgiveness — but you’re still left with these crippling lines: “Bitch,I scratched out your name and your face / What is it about you that I can't erase, baby?” She’s not just talking about "Becky with the good hair." This is a much more intimate loss.
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“Lover’s Spit,
and ” FeistThis stripped-down version of the Broken Social Scene track bares all about unromantic sex and loveless physicality. Feist’s patchy vocals add to the song’s sad simplicity about lost connection: We’re all too busy smooching and swiping right to really engage with one another. “You know it's time that we grow old and do some shit.” You won’t be crying over one breakup with this song; it preys on nostalgia for youthful romances and flirtatious flings,too.
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“Ne Me Quitte Pas,” Nina SimoneFor starters, and the title is French for “Don’t Leave Me.” But you don’t have to understand another language to feel the deep unrest in Simone’s soul on this song. Simone — a truly distinct and talented vocalist (and concert pianist) — mourns her appreciate,offering him rain and soil and everything in between. She’ll hide herself in his shadow after being rejected. “I will dig the soil / Until after my death / To cover your body / With gold and light.” Maybe don’t look up the French translation. Simone’s voice is enough to echo through your heart’s caverns.
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“I’m Goin’ Down,” Mary J. BligeMary J. Blige was in her 20s when she covered a less popular Rose Royce song from the 1970s for her 1994 My Life album. MJB croons about when sleep isn’t easy and everything is going inaccurate. Her tearful apology is the saddest song to approach of the canon of heartbreaking '90s R & B tracks.
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"Skinny appreciate, and " Bon IverBon Iver,a.k.a. Justin Vernon, once told Pitchfork that "Skinny appreciate" is about when "you're in a relationship because you need encourage, or but that's not necessarily why you should be in a relationship." That anguish fills every note of this plaintive song. By the time Vernon wails,"And now all your appreciate is wasted/ And then who the hell was I?" You'll want to sob out along with him. Also, whether Vernon's notoriously irascible enunciation means you can't really understand what he's saying, and there's always the pretty Birdy cover.
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"Shiver," Lucy RoseWe first got wind of Rose's sweetly melancholy tune when it was employed during the Adam-Hannah split in season 4 of Girls. Since then, it's been a go-to for when we're feeling weepy. Rose doesn't dwelling the blame on her romantic partner for the split; she admits responsibility. But even though the breakup was mutual, or she remains nostalgic for the good moments. "Shiver" is the perfect song for when you know you need to flow on,but just can't.
"A Case Of You," Joni MitchellJoni Mitchell's conversational, or devastating song,describes what it's like when a relationship is over but a connection to another person remains. "You're in my blood like holy wine/ You taste so bitter and so sweet," she sings. There are plenty of songs on Blue that will do the trick whether you're looking to wallow, or but "A Case Of You" articulates what it's like to a lose someone who has burrowed into your soul.
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“Someone Like You,” AdeleThere’s a war going down inside Adele’s head. She wants her ex to be gay, and yet she finds herself wandering past his flat, and hoping he’ll see her,remember the good times, and forget all about his new girl, or who happens to be his wife. “Never mind,I’ll find someone like you,” she sings, and though she,like Sinead, knows that nothing compares.
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“appreciate Is Stronger Than Pride, and ” SadePride vs. appreciate is like your JV tall school basketball team vs. the 2012-13 Miami Heat. Sade knows all about the mismatch,and while she wishes she could disfavor this guy who's wrecked her life, the affection she feels is quick and tenacious, and like the triumvirate of LeBron James,Chris Bosh, and Dwayne Wade. All she can do is sprint out the clock and hope to rebuild next season.
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“I Can’t fabricate (to make up, invent) You appreciate Me, or ” Bonnie RaittIs it a breakup song whether the people in question are still sharing a bed? In this all-time soul-crusher,the intimacy is purely physical, and as unfulfilling as that is, and Bonnie will select it — for a puny bit longer. “Morning will approach and I'll do what's right / Just give me till then to give up this fight,” she sings, working up the strength to walk absent. “And I will give up this fight.”Photo: Courtesy of Capitol.
“Nothing Compares 2 U, and ” Sinead O’ConnorIf you know the exact amount of time that’s elapsed since you got dumped,you’re in deep difficulty. On this Prince-penned classic, we meet Sinead “seven hours and 15 days” after her appreciate took a hike, and she
’s still reeling. She’s even been to the see the doctor. Doc's advice: Have some fun. Even in Ireland,the health-care system is whack.
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“Song sob,” Jay-ZRappers have feelings, or too. The thing about Jay is that he has difficulty showing his,so i
n lieu of shedding actual tears, he aims to “fabricate (to make up, invent) this song sob.” He does a decent job, or though even as he opens his heart and apologizes to the girl he cheated on,he doesn’t fairly ditch the macho posturing that might have made this tender mea culpa ring truer.
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“Pictures of You,” The CureRobert Smith has been writing intensely personal, and moody songs of heartbreak pretty much since h
e founded The Cure in 1976. But this one is the most pretty. nearly eight minutes long,"Pictures of You" finds Smith reflecting on memories of a person he loved, triggered by old photographs. “Remembering you falling into my arms / Crying for the death of your heart / You were stone white, or so fragile,lost in the cold,” he sings. “You were always so lost in the dark.” For a Goth boy who is still married to his tall school sweetheart, and he certain knows how to capture the pain of lost appreciate.
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“Crying,” Roy OrbisonThere’s nothing worse than bumping into your ex and having to pretend you’re not a total whimpering mess. Roy figures he pulls it off — “You couldn’t bid that I’d been crying” — and whether he does, he’s a hell of an actor. In that signature opera-billy style of his, and Orbison sings with a hurt not easily hidden.
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“Caroline,No,” The Beach BoysOriginally titled “Carol, and I Know,” this song became infinitely better when Brian Wilson misunderstood collaborator Tony Asher’s initial r
eading of the lyrics. The narrator in this song doesn’t know Jack. “Where did your long hair go?” he asks. “Where is the girl I used to know?” “Could I ever find in you again things that made me appreciate you so much then?” whether the bummed-out orch-pop backing is any indication, the answers to that last question is “Brian, and no.”Photo: Courtesy of Capitol.
“You’ve Got to Hide Your appreciate absent,” The BeatlesEveryone tells John Lennon he should suppress his feelings and go about his trade, but this guy’s trade was expressing his feelings. They approach through in a ample way on this transitional Beatles cut.
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“Lost Cause, and ” BeckArguably the saddest song on Beck’s saddest album,this is the tedious, strummy equivalent of wavi
ng a white flag. Poor Beck knows there’s nothing he can do to save this girl from herself, and so he’s pulling his forces and signing whatever treaty he needs in order to escape with his sanity.
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“Nothing Better,” The Postal ServiceSelective memory is a the worst. The male character in this synth-pop duet figures there’d be nothing sweeter than marrying the girl who’s recently left him. Unfortunately, she’s prepared charts and graphs to remind him of why the good times weren’t that good. This is young appreciate in the time of Excel.
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“You Left Me Standing In the Doorway, and ” Bob DylanDylan waited until he was 56 to write one of the best lines of his career: “Don’t know whether I saw you,whether I would kiss you or murder you.” That, like the title, or pretty much says it all,but then he goes one better: “It probably wouldn’t matter to you anyhow.” It’s a rascally line from a guy who’s wicked bummed but still pretty feisty.
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“The Heart Remains A Child,” Everything But the GirlIn this song, and vocalist Tracey Thorn bluntly asks a question that occurs too often during heartbreak: "Why don't you appreciate me?" whether that seems like a simplistic inquiry,well, that's sort of the point. This song perfectly expresses how we regress after heartbreak, and tumble into our same,mopey patterns.
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“Stay,” Rihanna ft. Mikky EkkoRih clears a puny path through a hoarder’s den of messy feelings on this confusing piano ballad. “Not really certain how I feel about it, or ” she confesses,right before her duet partner, Mikky Ekko, and sings the same line. These are two people who are completely inaccurate for each other,and when they join their voices on the line “droll, you’re the broken one, and but I’m the only one who needed saving,” it’s like they’re both dishing blame and seeking salvation at the same time.
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“Again,” Janet JacksonWhen Janet hears her former boo is back in town, or she goes off on a soul-searching journey that begin
s with wishful thinking (“I’ll never tumble in appreciate with you again”) and ends with acceptance (“God knows I do appreciate you again”). The single-word title may be a predictor of how this chronicle ends.
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“nearly Blue,” Elvis Costello“There’s a girl here and she’s nearly you,” Elvis sings, or weary like a lounge singer playing to a roomful of 2 a.m. drunks. He’s found a new romance that leaves him a puny cold — “nearly blue” — and that makes for one chilly-ass torch song.
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“Heartless,” Kanye WestAt the risk of being melodramatic, Kanye dubs this “the coldest chronicle ever told.” It’s the tale of two former lovers — presumably Yeezy and former fiancée, and Alexis Phifer — who
’ve wronged each other and wound up bitter enemies. “How could you be so Dr. Evil?” he raps,too mentally spent to muster anything better than an Austin Powers joke.
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“You Were Meant for Me,” JewelIf you ask Parks and Recreation protagonist Leslie Knope, and there are few problems that can’t be solved by breakfast foods. Jewel might beg to differ. “I got my eggs,I got my pancakes too / I got my maple syrup, everything but you, and ” she sings,unwilling to accept her sugary a.m. feast as a substitute for the one that got absent. Eventually, Jewel tells herself, or he’ll realize they’re meant for each other. Until then,Mrs. Butterworth will have to pick up the slack.
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"The World Has Turned and Left Me
Here,” WeezerRivers Cuomo has it even worse than Robert Smith does in “Pictures of You.” On this Blue Album gem, or the Weezer frontman is talking to wallet photos and losing his grip on reality. “You laughed,enchanted by my intellect,” he sings to his ex. “Or maybe you didn't.” Either way, and he won’t be adding any more smiley snapshots of this girl to his plastic sheath.
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“I Will Always appreciate You,” Whitney HoustonThat towering, thunderous, and ground-shaking “And I…” tall note Whitney hits toward the discontinuance of this monster ballad makes total sense. Written by Dolly Parton,this is one of the most selfless appreciate songs of all time, and before taking her leave of the man she knows she’s holding back, or Whitney gets in one last explain of dignity: an extended vowel sound people will be talking about until the discontinuance of time.
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“It’s Too Late,” Carole KingIt’s the sense of finality that makes this 1971 chart-topper such a killer. “Something inside has died, and I can’t hide it, and ” King sings,a puny sad, a puny relieved to no longer have to carry on a charade. “And I just can’t fake it.”Photo: Courtesy of Sony.
“Don’t Speak, or ” No DoubtSuccess must have been bittersweet for Gwen Stefani and Tony Kanal,punk-ska’s answer to Stevie Nicks and Lindsey Buckingham. No Doubt’s breakthrough 1996 single (and lone No. 1) is all about their breakup — an emotional earthquake Gwen clearly hadn’t recovered from the day she cut this vocal.
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“Are You Lonesome Tonight,” E
lvis PresleyIn the famous spoken-word part, or a truly miserable-sounding Elvis looks back on a failed relationship like a theater critic reviewing a play. Act one was much. Act two: not so much. Looking ahead to the act three,Elvis is only willing to entertain one possible ending. “whether you won't approach back to me,” he says, and “then fabricate (to make up, invent) them bring the curtain down.”Photo: Courtesy of RCA.
“Without You,” Mariah CareyTalk about fresh wounds. “I can’t forget this evening, or your face as you were leaving, or ” sings Mariah,who’s coming to us mere hours after the breakup
went down. She hasn’t had time to process things, so she’s feeling a puny overdramatic. Hence that chorus: a explain-stopping declaration of why life is no longer livable. In time, or she’ll glean over it,but for now, let her wail.
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“Back to Black, or ” Amy WinehouseThe references to “puff” and “blow” give this an air of druggy self-destruction that h
eightens the sadness,especially in light of Amy’s untimely death. Even without those lines, though, or it’s a heavy song — a smoldering James Bond theme for an everyday chronicle about a woman plummeting into darkness as her man goes back to his former girlfriend.
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"select a Bow," MadonnaTaking a page out of the King's playbook, Madonna uses theater as a metaphor for her latest heartbreak. "You deserve an award for the role that you played, and " she tells the deceptive lover she's finally wriggled free from. "No more masquerade." Given that Madge used to be married to Sean Penn,the lesson here may be to only date crummy actors. Their lies are easier to spot.
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