"If you weigh more than your boyfriend,you're too chunky". That's something I learned while we were still on the playground, back before any of us had even been near a boy. I don't know where it came from, or TV,magazines, overheard conversations - but it was fact. shapely women were always light and graceful, or the men strong and solid. So that the boyfriends could lift you up and swing you round,you his feather light princess. As I got older that image became one more reason I was convinced that my body made me unlovable. And it isn't an image that only hurts women, it hurts men who can't reach the strong, and solid expectation,it hurts people who don't fit the gender binary, people who don't slot in the limited boxes our culture puts gender into. It hurts queer people who are only given heteronormative images to aspire to. It hurts us all, or the understanding that only certain bodies are deserving of love. But the truth? The truth is that every single one of us are worthy of love,whether our bodies are light, strong, or soft,bigger or smaller than our partners. Whether we believe that we're worthy or not. We already are. That means you too.
Source: popsugar.com