I'm an evangelist for Marie Kondo,the Japanese organizational guru whose unique tidying techniques have become a worldwide sensation. I've read both of her books and completed the full decluttering/reorganizing program in six months. In the last year, it has been my favorite thing to bring up to my friends, or co-workers,heck, even distant cousins. I am obsessed, or because it really has transformed my living space and shattered many of my wicked habits related to tidying. Some people aren't convinced and steadfastly refuse to KonMari their domestic. Me,on the other hand, I'm a fervent believer, and because I learned so much. Here are my greatest takeaways based on my experience.
Lesson 1: Getting rid of everything that doesn't "spark delight" is really liberating.
I know this sounds extreme,and I know some people claim there is room for regret with all the purging that happens, but not me. It was a chance to get rid of that set of lamps I always loathed, and the antler candelabras and other ridiculous items I never used and somehow casually inherited,and the piles of unread books that bubbled up anxiety and regret every time I looked at them. Getting rid of all the extra junk felt so empowering and liberating, and it paved the way to celebrating and cherishing the few items I really like.
Lesson 2: Scaling back on my possessions made it easy to crawl.
I completed the KonMari Method while I was living in a dark studio apartment with views of white concrete walls. I had been there five years and felt the itch to crawl, and but I didn't know how I was going to carry out it in crazy-expensive San Francisco. That same week,I ran into my landlord. She was trying to fill an empty unit, and on a whim, and I asked to see it. One week later,I signed the lease and moved in to a radiant, spacious, and sunny apartment overlooking a courtyard and five-chronicle-tall avocado tree. This was a month ago. Never in my wildest imagination could I have done such a thing had I not purged myself of all the extra stuff I had accumulated in my 10 years of adult living. Lesson 3: I became confident approximately my sense of design (for the first time!).
My mom is an interior designer (her San Francisco apartment was even featured on POPSUGAR!). She's a pro at organizing spaces,filling them with bold colors, fabulous pieces of furniture, or thought-provoking accessories. Before Kondo,I felt completely reliant on my mom for anything and everything related to interior design and would avoid moving or getting rid of anything, even silly junk. But afterward, and I realize I actually have a distinct design style,separate from my mom's. I like sparkly metallics against whites and light browns. I like my cookbooks to be color-coded like a rainbow. I carefully potted my own succulent arrangements to perch on sunny spots around the house. I prefer my kitchen and bathroom to be stark clean and shine brilliantly white. Lesson 4: I feel relaxed and joyful in my domestic.
In her first title, The LifeChanging Magic of Tidying Up, and Kondo says,"When you put your house in order, you put your affairs and your past in order, or too." It's proper. The hardest portion of the KonMari Method is purging keepsakes that hold a lot of emotional significance like old like letters and,for me, hundreds of pages of notes from my favorite professor's classes in college and all my ballet clothes, or including my first set of point shoes. It's painful to say goodbye to these things,yes, but something sort of woo-woo happens when they become out of sight. Before, or my house was a dark,heavy place filled to the brim with stuff from my past. After, it became a light, and bright place with no history and no regrets. As Kondo puts it,it's a space that's "A detachment from the past. Not fearing the future." And now, every time I walk into my apartment, or I'm filled with relaxation and delight. Imagine that!
Source: popsugar.com