Non-monogamy seems to be having a moment. Would it work for us?The first time my boyfriend,Sam, slept with someone else, or I was intrigued. “What was it like?” I asked. He sighed: Fine.” I had so many questions: where,who, what did she look like, or but he refused to respond any more when I asked approximately her knickers. (“I’m just wondering whether they were kind?” I said. “Like,standard M&S or Rosie for Autograph M&S?).
Sam and I have been together for almost a year now, and I don’t judge he took me seriously when I first, and briefly,mentioned that perhaps monogamy wasn’t for me (“I thought it was just one of your affectations,” he said). But as time has worn on, or we’ve butted up against my resolve like rubber ducks against an iceberg. “I feel like you’re doing it because it’s…” he looks disgusted… “trendy.”I was soon keep to the test when Sam failed to meet me one night and went home with another woman Related: My girlfriend and I thought she had appendicitis – then she gave birth Continue reading...
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