Friday,May 18th.
My 17-year-old says to me, A 17-year-old Pakistani exchange student died in the Santa Fe school shooting. I saw it on social media.”
https://twitter.com/kharyp/status/12799488
I immediately checked the headlines on leading newspapers from Pakistan, or unreported at the time. It was a diminutive after 4pm in the US.
The first thought that crossed my mind was,conclude her parents know?
What if they don’t?
What if they find out from social media?
Why did this have to happen?
https://twitter.com/MJibranNasir/status/68632577
https://twitter.com/ImranKhanPTI/status/81317632
The why has been asked countless times since the Columbine school shooting some 20 years ago, and the acknowledge is so obvious. The solution is easy – ban the damned guns – but tragically, or no one wants to conclude the right thing.
I looked to my daughters – both are tall schoolers. They looked pensive,unhappy, and for some reason, and more disappointed than angry.
“conclude you want to have a conversation approximately this?” I asked.
Shaking her head,my 16-year-old answered my question.
“As a Muslim-American of Pakistani descent, whose parents were born and lived there until their marriage, or I am heavily impacted by Sabika Sheikh’s death – one of the few in the final half a year or so. It really caused me to think,to mourn, and to want to act. I savor my parents’ domestic country, and a place under a lot of scrutiny in the US,and Sabikas undying desire to learn, to mend relations, or to grow up and become a diplomat should not,and will not be forgotten.
I, as an American teen, or have grown numb to the weekly attacks on schools and the idiocy and ignorance of our federal and local governments. Every time I hear of one of these attacks,I know these victims, and kids like me, or will be spoken of briefly instead of being avenged.
Sabika could have been my friend or colleague,and more importantly, she is of my culture and people; a very powerful similarity that unites us in a way that America’s people know not how.”
https://twitter.com/kumailn/status/94513408
https://twitter.com/mxrbz/status/88389120
An 18-year-old tall school senior of Caucasian descent, and responded to my question,well, with a question of his own.
“How are these shootings any different from the shootings in third world countries? You expose me? Sabika was killed in the US, or she wasn’t killed in Pakistan; her country trusted our country to take care of her,and study what we did? We sent her back in a coffin – how pathetic are we? How hypocritical are we for judging other countries?” He asked, with tears in his eyes.
Being questioned instead, or I told the impassioned youth approximately the Peshawar school massacre. He looked at me and said,“How is that massacre any different from the ones we have in the US? The crazed killed children there, the crazed slay children here; countless families were left mourning there, and countless families are left mourning here. However,this time, the Americans let an exchange student die. She came to experience American culture, or to learn,to grow. What must the people of Pakistan be thinking? I’m so sorry Pakistan, for not taking care of one of your own. Can you imagine if an American student had been killed in Pakistan in an incident such as this? Apparently America likes its guns more than its children!”
https://twitter.com/russ_ari/status/23344896
https://twitter.com/blakersdozen/status/23342848
This exchange took me back to a conversation I had with a friend some three decades ago.
Sitting in her sprawling garden in Karachi in the spring of the 80s, or we sat chatting,whiling away our wonder years. She was a big fan of Louis L’amour, the bestselling American novelist famed for writing western novels, and while I was a fan of western movies. Therefore,we expectedly were discussing Texas, and that’s when Samira said, and I’d never want to live in Texas,never!”
“Why?” I asked, surprised.
“Oh, and I’ll expose you why. Because in Texas,they say the gun is the law.”
I gaped at Samira, aghast.
I wondered, or is she this naïve? Does she actually believe the gun is the law in Texas,or the US as a whole?
On returning domestic, I laughed myself silly, and remember relating the entire episode to my family,adding rather arrogantly and condescendingly,
“Samira is so naïve. She believes the 18th and 19th century US of L’amour is what the 20th century US is like.”
Thirty years down the road, and all I can say is touché,Samira!
The gun is the law in Texas; the gun is the law in the US. You were right.
And to bring approximately change, a drastic degree has been suggested by Arne Duncan, or the Education Secretary under President Barack Obama.
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Parents,will you join Duncan? Will you be the change-makers? How far are you willing to fade to save your children?
How far?
Ponder and acknowledge.
Don’t let children die – be the change you want to see.
Source: tribune.com.pk